書摘:《非暴力溝通之道》

Corey
Nov 10, 2022

《Pathways to Nonviolent Communication: A Tool for Navigating Your Journey》(非暴力溝通之道:你的旅程導航工具),Jim Manske,2021
★★★★☆

話說,非暴力溝通係我好鍾意 — — 但未做到 — — 嘅一套框架。於是我睇咗另一本書,講28個技巧,據講可以幫人做到非暴力溝通。哩28個技巧,同非暴力溝通一樣,睇落我都覺得好鍾意,同埋都係未做到LOL

本書嘅重點章節,可以喺 https://pathwaystoliberation.com/ 睇到 — —

28個技巧:
Presence 臨在
Observing 觀察
Feelings Awareness 對感受的覺察
Self-acceptance 自我接納
Taking ownership of one’s feelings 為自己的感受負責
Needs consciousness 需要意識
Reconnecting to self and recovering from reactivity 與自己重新連結,以及從情緒反應中恢復過來
Request consciousness & making requests 請求意識和提出請求
Mourning 哀悼
Empathy 同理心
Dissolving enemy images 轉化敵人形象
Discernment 明辨
Living interdependently 相依互存地生活
Honest self-expression 真誠地表達自己
Facilitating connection 促進連結
Patience 耐心
Responding to others’ reactivity 有意識地回應他人的情緒反應
Openness to feedback 對回饋保持開放
Beneficial regret 有益的遺憾
Flexibility in relating 靈活地與他人交流
Transforming conflict 轉化衝突
Gratitude 感恩
Open-hearted flow of giving and receiving 由衷開放的給予和接受
Cultivating vitality 培養活力
Sharing power 分享權力
Transcending roles 超越角色
Awareness of response-ability 覺察「回應生命處境的能力」
Supporting holistic systems 支持整全系統

英文原版Rubric:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1KPIvCD_XIGThKEsqZ-qKQwY0Op5pSe_r7uqksetW5FQ/edit#gid=10

繁中版Rubric:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1_lFft3WwDTK6m_1BY4RHIKd4VAtPu56tkn2hP5uWi8c/edit#gid=1150811525

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